As children spend more time watching, reading and engaging with media, their exposure to sexualized media content is nearly inevitable. Subsequently, it is important to be aware of what types of sexualized messages children are consuming and how these messages affect children.
Children learn from media. Children and adolescents can learn through media about what is considered to be acceptable sexual behavior. While educational media can provide useful guidance and help teach older children and adolescents about sexual health, risks and behaviors, unrealistic portrayals of sexual behavior in the media combined with less alternative sources of factual information about sexuality and appropriate behaviors can lead children to use media as a “sexual super peer” that may encourage them to be sexually active, take risks, and/or adopt these beliefs as their own (Brown et al., 2006).
Exposure to pornography can alter how a child perceives sex and body image. Studies have shown that children who are exposed to pornography often have difficulties distinguishing between the fictional pornographic characters and behaviors they see and real life sexual situations. This can lead children and adolescents to have unrealistic views of how their bodies should look, insecurities about their appearance (particularly in males), and anxieties about sexual performance and intimacy (Peter & Valkenburg, 2010).
- Help parents understand that sexual references are common in all types of media (advertisements, music, movies, magazines, etc.). Subsequently, recommend that parents monitor and limit their child’s exposure to sexual content.
- Encourage parents to keep an ear/eye out for sexual comments or behaviors their children say or exhibit, and to address them right away in hopes of starting conversations about often difficult subjects.
- Explain to parents that avoiding the topic of sexual messages depicted in media could reinforce negative stereotypes and encourage the child to believe any misinformation presented. If they view a sexual message with their child, encourage parents to discuss the message and to put it in the context of real life and consequences.
- Encourage parents to look into internet and cable filters and employ the safeguards that technology allows to help block access to inappropriate channels and websites. If they have questions on how to do this, they can call their internet/cable providers.
- When it comes to starting to address pubertal changes during well child visits, consider offering the parents an opportunity to discuss any questions they may have as well as the patient.
- Describe and provide resources to parents about how they can teach media literacy skills to children at different developmental stages. Provide parents with accurate consumer health resources related to sexual behavior, and encourage parents to prepare answers to commonly asked questions about sex, especially if they are having difficulties broaching the subject of sexuality. Even for those of us in healthcare, this topic can be tricky to discuss. Browse the CMCH blog “Ask the Mediatrician” section on sexuality for commonly asked questions and answers.
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This toolkit was created with funding from Harvard Pilgrim Health Care